When Emptiness Seems Momentous

When the person isn't there,

when the empty spot seems momentous. 

That is when you finally realize . . .

how much you adore and love this person. 

Open your heart

by ©2011-2012 *xeena-dragonkizz

"Don't be afraid to fall in love again. 
Open your heart and follow where it leads you

...and remember, shoot for the moon...

PS, I will always love you..."

-- Cecelia Ahern

ℒove

Pleasure of ℒove lasts but a moment,

Pain of ℒove lasts a lifetime.

...Jean Pierre Claris De Florian

P/S: So, will you still love even if

the pain may lasts a lifetime

just to have that ephemeral pleasure

or you know the memories are worth it

Finding ℒove

 No one said finding a once-in-a-lifetime ℒove would be easy;

Picture by ~sh4hid

they only said it would be worth it.

Picture by

~groby

Discovery of ℒove

ℒove is the discovery of ourselves in others,

and the delight in recognition.

...Poet Alexander Smith

Falling in ℒove

Everyone has their own definition of falling in ℒove.

I came across this few weeks ago,

thought I'll share it

Falling in love is,

Not about finding the right person,

Not about finding the ideal match,

Not about liking the same thing,

Not about the person's name, identity, pasts, secrets

But despite all,

You ℒOVE that person.

P/S: But this may be opposite for some people.

They want an ideal match,

They want their partner to have the same interest as them,

Some might even care more about status, identity. . .;

perhaps they realize reality is different from what they wished they have.

ℱriendship or ℒove

People always say a girl and a boy can never be close friends.

Because, at one point, they will eventually end up liking each other.

What if this happens to you?

Say, you have a very close friend who is from the opposite sex.

But one day, suddenly, it feels as if the feelings has gone beyond that (friendship)

You have already fall for your close friend.

Will you choose to tell him or...keep it from him, thinking those instances when friendship contains more weight than love.

Sometimes, one might choose to treasure their friendship because they are afraid to lose it.

But on the other side, 

is it really that important to categorize your relationship; whether you're friends or lovers?

P/S: You might regret when your best friend starting to like someone else.

Think about how important to have your best friend by your side,

whether as a friend or lover.

Then you decide whether or not you're going to confess.

Because no one can really help you to decide.

Gifts

Life is the first gift,

Love is the second,

and 

Understanding is the third.

-- Marge Piercy

I am yet to receive my second & third gift

Be in LOVE or SINGLE?

Being single is good.

The question is . . . is it as good as being in L.O.V.E?

I guess it depends how important LOVE is to you.

Some sees LOVE as important as OXYGEN

“Above all things I believe in love. Love is like oxygen. Love is a many-splendored thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love!” 

~ From the movie Moulin Rouge

 

Some might think otherwise 

{And I happened to be one of them...for now}

Better Single Tha Sorry; the Smart Girl's Guide to Being Single and Fabulous

 Others might have other thoughts.

Whatever that is, 

You know what is best for you.