If you want me...

Found these songs recently and loved it. 

Thought I'd share them.
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FMarketa Irglova And Glen Hansard_If You Want Me.mp3

If You Want Me by Marketa Irglova And Glen Hansard

(Soundtrack from the movie 'ONCE')

&

Between the Bars by Elliott Smith 

(From the album 'Either/Or')

Elliott Smith - Between the Bars.mp3

Discovery of ℒove

ℒove is the discovery of ourselves in others,

and the delight in recognition.

...Poet Alexander Smith

Winter. . .alone

Alone on a Saturday night

sitting by the river

Looking at couples, families, friends

talking, laughing, taking photographs

Street performers making passerby amazed, laughed;

trying to make a living although

they always deny it.

Everyone spending time together with their loved ones, 

having fun while making memories.

Just by looking at these, wouldn't one feel warm on such a cold night?

Well, let me tell you this, NO! 

It's freezing out here.

Then, you probably wondering why the heck I'm out here if it's cold.

I could have just stayed at home.

True but the thing is I don't feel like staying at home the place I'm living right now.

Those people are always arguing...for whatever reason.

Anyone would've rather stay out of the house.

Because listening to them arguing will only make you feel worst than you already did.

Of course, that is if you're in a bad mood.

But even if you are in a good mood, they'll just spoil it. [mood spoiler]

Also, I prefer to have some 'me time'.

which means, spending some quality time with MYSELF.

Just to relax, have a peace of mind, and to think things through. 

Okay, maybe not the last one.

There's not much things to think though.

ℱeelings

ℱeelings truly are mysterious and powerful.

Sometimes people do things you couldn't imagine them doing.

Falling in ℒove

Everyone has their own definition of falling in ℒove.

I came across this few weeks ago,

thought I'll share it

Falling in love is,

Not about finding the right person,

Not about finding the ideal match,

Not about liking the same thing,

Not about the person's name, identity, pasts, secrets

But despite all,

You ℒOVE that person.

P/S: But this may be opposite for some people.

They want an ideal match,

They want their partner to have the same interest as them,

Some might even care more about status, identity. . .;

perhaps they realize reality is different from what they wished they have.

ℱriendship or ℒove

People always say a girl and a boy can never be close friends.

Because, at one point, they will eventually end up liking each other.

What if this happens to you?

Say, you have a very close friend who is from the opposite sex.

But one day, suddenly, it feels as if the feelings has gone beyond that (friendship)

You have already fall for your close friend.

Will you choose to tell him or...keep it from him, thinking those instances when friendship contains more weight than love.

Sometimes, one might choose to treasure their friendship because they are afraid to lose it.

But on the other side, 

is it really that important to categorize your relationship; whether you're friends or lovers?

P/S: You might regret when your best friend starting to like someone else.

Think about how important to have your best friend by your side,

whether as a friend or lover.

Then you decide whether or not you're going to confess.

Because no one can really help you to decide.

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Door to your heart

Everyone knows the saying:

"When one door closes, another opens."

Evanescence - The Open Door

But, 

how do you know if that other door is the right door to happiness?

You might even be about to step into the wrong door just to fill that void in your heart.

You know it but. . .

Everyone knows they will eventually die,

but they still live.

Everyone knows that a relationship will eventually end,

but they still start one.

P/S: I do not own those pictures. Credits:`SeaFairy

You get what you don't see

Most men never see past the smell of a woman's enthralling perfume,

and her fake smile.

Most men are: 

"what you see is what you get"

The truth is, when it comes to a woman:

"What you don't see, is really what you're going to get. . .later on"

And I guess this is the difference between a man and a woman.

Gifts

Life is the first gift,

Love is the second,

and 

Understanding is the third.

-- Marge Piercy

I am yet to receive my second & third gift

Be in LOVE or SINGLE?

Being single is good.

The question is . . . is it as good as being in L.O.V.E?

I guess it depends how important LOVE is to you.

Some sees LOVE as important as OXYGEN

“Above all things I believe in love. Love is like oxygen. Love is a many-splendored thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love!” 

~ From the movie Moulin Rouge

 

Some might think otherwise 

{And I happened to be one of them...for now}

Better Single Tha Sorry; the Smart Girl's Guide to Being Single and Fabulous

 Others might have other thoughts.

Whatever that is, 

You know what is best for you.

More facts (or not) on Type B!

Like I said in my previous post, Type B people are more laid back and tolerant than other types.

At times, they may seem easygoing but as a matter of fact, they do think carefully before acting.

They rarely feel much time urgency although can be just as ambitious as Type A's. 

(I agree with this)

They do things for enjoyment or fulfillment, not just to win.

(Yeah, I do want to win but I don't really care if I don't)

Type B's are also not good at expressing themselves (that includes me...and my family) 

They are awkward in speech. (Hit right on the spot, lol)

They are just too lazy to explain something complicated or to someone who just won't understand.

(I do get pissed of if others don't get what I'm saying, in the end, I decided to just keep my mouth shut)

It is always endless when they tried explaining their point of view (yeah,sort of) 

The content of their speech usually doesn't flow. In their mind, they have the whole speech and their ideas are consistent, but when the deliver in words...well, the 'consistent ideas' are not consistent anymore.

(Happens to me ALL THE TIME, so it's not me but my blood. LOL)

But they are always lazy to explain. Well, the thing is that they do not how to express it.

They are also optimistic but individualists. 

(Sometimes, I really do prefer to be on my own)

If they are worried about something, they would take action right away 

(I think you can say they have amazing strength of action at this time)

BUT, if they are not interested in doing something...well, yeah, they will do it halfheartedly.

They like to play with groups of people but also prefer staying alone (even though afraid of loneliness) if you know what I mean.

They are shy with strangers. However, they will overcome their shyness when they certain situation force them too

(So true. I don't talk to strangers unless they start talking to me. But I do start talking (to certain people) when I know NOBODY and needed someone to talk to(nothing private, tho)

Hate identical things. They just want to be different from others.

(Not sure 'bout others but I do! I have a Paul Frank phone strap on my iPhone. Yes. iPhone! and nobody does that)

Type B's have a fragile heart and will get hurt easily.

(Not sure since I haven't been hurt, YET)

Sometimes, they might feel that they are born in the wrong era or place.

(OMG, I used to think about this all the time, I still do sometimes. Thinking I belong or wished to be somewhere else) 

They think they can do anything in the world but it is only coming from their mouth.

(Action speaks louder than words don't apply to type B's)

Others will think that they are lying when they are making excuses, so they seldom make excuses. This could be the reason B-type people are always being understood. Then, they will get emaciated, and won't feel happy.

They do agree that everyone has their own opinion but they normally WILL NOT accept others' opinion/view. (Agree with this)

They love their family. (Yeah I love my family)

They might invent their own cursing language but only they will know themselves. (LOL)

Sometimes they go by feeling and are actually good at that.

They are different from others' crazy side. Like, you won't comment on how the sports competition really was. You were not there for the competition/players in the first place. You only like the feeling of being there (watching) live. However, if you like/fancy a particular player of a particular sport, you will support that player in the end. (you get what I mean?)

That's all for now. More to come . . .stay tuned.

Cheers! 

I'm type B

There are people who judge someone based on their horoscope (western/chinese) or blood type. 

Yes, blood type (especially the Japanese and Korean) - whether it is for matchmaking, hiring someone...etc (not kidding, you can Google it).

They sees people with blood type A as someone who's a perfectionists and crave for success. 

O-type people are always seen as someone who's outgoing.

AB-type? Asians think they are the 'weirdos' (which I do not agree),always the outcast probably because they have split personalities. 

While the B-type people (that's me!), they are the individualists, laid back and selfish people. 

(Yes, those are the few first traits that comes to mind when blood types are mentioned.)

Well, I'm not a Japanese nor Korean but I am obsessed with all these personality thingies

<based on blood type, horoscope, numerology> 

& I am NOT that superstitious.

I am just, uhh...

I think you can say CURIOUS (this too is one of B-Type traits) about how and why people behave in some way or may affect them.

I am going to talk about type-B people in my next post (call me bias!).

A kiss and a man's heart.

I once read a fictional story. . .and came across this theory.

Thought I will share will y'all.

It says, 

"A woman can tell a man's heart by his kisses."

It takes time to understand a man, and the best way to start was through his kisses. 

To tell the absolute truth from a man's physicality, 

it was through the way he held onto a kiss.

If a man can make a woman tingle from her head to toes with that one kiss, 

he was the one for her. 

A woman can know much about a man when they're kissing. So it was the kisses. Not the sex.

Sex was complicated enough without having to decipher a man during it. 

A good man may be bad-ass in bed, and a bad man may be a weak man in bed.

Sex doesn't tell anything about a man. If anything, it just separates the legit from the obsolete. That was all sex ever told. But kisses. . .were different.